Is Your Way Working?
You know, we go through life doing things ‘our way’, and we’re happy enough with that.
We all want ‘Success’, and success is different things to different people.
If your dream was a good job, own house, partner and kids and you’ve got that, then you have achieved the success you wanted, and congratulations.
But if you want more, if the above is just a step on your way, you have to ask yourself if you really are getting there…
The odds are, you’re not…
You see, almost certainly, the job/house/kids dream was not your dream at all: it was the dream of your parents and family.
Now you have achieved their dream and they’re happy. But you? You could be feeling discontentment. Unfulfilled. Needing something else…
You have your own dreams. You have visions and talent. You want more…
The trouble is, your parents didn’t prepare you for more: they prepared you for what you’ve got, and you have difficulty moving on from there.
It’s not your fault, so don’t beat yourself up about it.
The trouble is that you’re hamstrung, on a subconscious level. All the things your family said to you whilst you were growing up (like, money can’t buy buy happiness) sunk into your subconscious and became your ‘story’. It became ‘who you are’. Your operating system. Your paradigms… and they’re holding you back.
The good news is that you can change your paradigms. You can re-set your operating system to allow you to forge ahead and pursue your dreams… It’s the only way to make things happen!
So, if your way isn’t producing the results you want, maybe it’s time to change and try another way that does!